Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 06:00

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

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If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

No country for ugly people…

Why are girls supposed to have a stereotypical "hourglass" body shape, and why if you dont have an "hourglass" body shape you get treated differently? It doesnt make any sense to me.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

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